Stages of Dementia and Available VA Programs

Dementia encompasses a range of diseases causing loss of memory and/or deterioration of other mental functions. The condition usually occurs from physical changes in the brain and is largely a progressive disease.  This means it typically gets worse over time. How dementia progresses will mainly depend on the underlying cause of dementia. Although people will experience the different stages of dementia differently, most patients will share a few common symptoms.

There are several different types of dementia, with Alzheimer’s disease being among the most common. It is reported 1 out of every 9 adults in the United States age 64 or older has dementia.  This number increases to 1 out of every 3 adults over the age of 85. The medical community often discusses dementia based on stages.  The different stages represent the level the disease has progressed and the kind of symptoms expected in each stage. This gives the caregivers an understanding of how their loved one stands with the disease and enables them to determine the better course of action.  


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The Three Stages of Dementia

Early Stage Dementia

Patients in the early stage of dementia usually have trouble remembering recent events, difficulty concentrating, have difficulty traveling to new places alone, and may have trouble managing their finances or remembering recently learned information. Patients also tend to start having difficulties socializing and might become unsociable withdrawn or avoid activities they previously enjoyed. While most of the symptoms here are mild, a physician can still diagnose dementia in its early stages. 

Middle Stage Dementia

The middle stage of dementia often sees patients having memory lapses. Aside from forgetting recent events, patients in this stage will start forgetting important information, such as their phone numbers, home address, and even the names of family members or close friends. While in this stage, most patients need some level of help performing daily activities such as meal preparation, bathing, and dressing. These and others are often referred to as Activities of Daily Living and abbreviated as ADLs.

Some patients in the middle and late stages of dementia also start seeing a decline in their ability to communicate and speak.  Incontinence will likely start becoming a problem. Other common problems include emotional issues and personality changes as the patient becomes agitated and anxious.  This may eventually lead to delusions. 

Late Stage Dementia

In the late stages of dementia, patients will often lose their ability to communicate and speak. Most patients will require help with the most basic activities such as eating or using the bathroom. Also, they may lose bodily function skills such as the ability to walk.

The best course of treatment to manage dementia will depend on the stage of dementia, and the patient’s overall health.

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Managing the Stages of Dementia

Unfortunately, there is currently no cure for dementia. However, several treatments have been shown to slow the progression of the disease, improve brain function, manage symptoms, and in many cases, improve the quality of life.

Research shows the key to effective dementia treatment is an early and accurate diagnosis. As such, it’s always important to consult a doctor if you notice any changes in your loved one’s memory and/or behavior.

Current dementia treatments are meant to improve the quality of life and slow the progression of the disease. These treatments are often a combination of therapies, medications, and symptom and/or behavior management strategies. 

Medications for Dementia

Properly prescribed Dementia medications can help to manage and temporarily relieve symptoms related to cognitive and memory function. Most medications are effective in the early and middle stages of dementia. Some of the most common ones include:

For some cases, medication may be prescribed to help manage other conditions commonly associated with dementia. Many patients tend to struggle with depression, insomnia, anxiety, and psychosis.  Properly prescribed medications can help manage these symptoms and improve their quality of life. Examples of these medications include:

  • Antidepressants: used to improve mood and brain function
  • Anxiolytics: for relieving agitation and anxiety
  • Hypnotics: used to help the patients fall and stay asleep at night
  • Antipsychotics: for minimizing hallucinations and treating psychosis
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Alternative Treatments for Stages of Dementia

Along with medications, dementia treatment often includes supportive care and therapies. These may help with behavioral problems to improve mood, reduce agitation, and increase relaxation. Here are a few examples of effective therapies for dementia:

Alternative medicine: A lot of doctors are now suggesting alternative medicines like massage therapy and acupuncture could be helpful with dementia, alongside medication. Such therapies help stimulate blood flow (massage) and improve energy (acupuncture). They can also ease the symptoms and help to relieve physical tension and pain. 

Aromatherapy: This is a safe way to help relieve agitation. Aromas like lavender and lemon are reported to help create a soothing environment promoting calmness and relaxation.

Art therapy: This has been shown to improve quality of life and slow cognitive decline, though more studies are needed to confirm the benefits for patients with dementia.

Brain exercises: According to research, brain training games and puzzles like Sudoku and Crossword Puzzles may help to slow down the progression of dementia. Playing board games, reading books regularly, and playing card games are all great brain exercises.

Cognitive rehabilitation: This helps patients in the early stages of dementia to maintain cognitive and memory function for as long as possible. It also teaches them compensation strategies to help those with declining cognition.

Diet: Diets rich in cruciferous vegetables, green vegetables and fish have been shown to have a positive impact on the symptoms of dementia. Foods rich in antioxidants can also help protect cells from damage.

Music therapy: According to research, listening to or singing soothing songs can help to reduce aggression and agitation.

Occupational therapy: This helps patients in the early and middle stages of dementia by teaching them coping strategies and behaviors to compensate for their cognitive decline and memory loss. It also helps their families make their homes safer for their loved one and provide techniques for managing difficult behaviors.

Pet therapy: This can help reduce irritability, agitation, anxiety, depression, and even loneliness. Many communities offering memory care usually have a pet resident or provide pet therapy. Seniors in such communities can enjoy the companionship of a pet without the responsibilities of caring for one.

Physical activity: Light and regular exercise has consistently been shown to help people with dementia perform better with their daily tasks and improve their mood and depression.

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Memory Care for Veterans with Dementia

Memory care facilities are specially designed to provide housing and care for patients living with dementia and Alzheimer’s. These facilities offer a safe, specially designed environment caring for the residents with a focus on improving their quality of life, preventing wandering, and reducing confusion.

This approach to dementia helps residents maintain their skills for as long as possible, while also providing them with stimulating and enriching activities helping stimulate their cognition and improve their quality of life. Some of the benefits of memory care include:

  • Supportive therapies for dementia 
  • safe and secure environment for seniors with dementia
  • A low staff to resident ratio
  • Highly trained and experienced staff in dementia care
  • Coordinated and wholesome care, usually in partnership with other healthcare providers

 Veterans with any form of dementia could be eligible for certain services and benefits from the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA). Veterans and their surviving spouses could be eligible for VA benefits that can help to pay for care related to dementia.  

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VA Programs for Memory Care

While there are many different programs through the VA for veterans with Dementia, below are some programs for which individuals may qualify.

  1. Home Health Aide Care: A homemaker or home health aide provides care to the patient in their home.  These individuals are trained to provide care in a home setting for non-medical services.  This program is for veterans needing assistance with activities of daily living.  It is also intended for veterans that are either isolated or have a caregiver experiencing a burden and needs help.  
  2. Veteran Directed Home and Community Based Services (VD-HCBS): This program assists veterans needing help with three or more daily living activities such as bathing, getting dressed, or preparing meals, the Activities of Daily Living. 
  3. VA Aide and Attendance: The VA Aide and Attendance program provides monthly payments, in addition to a monthly pension, for veterans and surviving spouses if they otherwise qualify.  This program provides reimbursement for expenses on care for individuals needing help with daily living activities.   This program provides funding for in-home care, adult daycare, and supplies needed for care, and many other possibilities.
  4. Community Nursing Home Care: This program is for veterans that need residential care 24/7 with skilled nursing and memory care.  Eligibility for this program is determined based on a service-connected disability, the level of the veteran’s disability, and their income.
  5. VA Community Living Centers:  A CLC or Community Living Center is a VA Nursing Care Center providing 24/7 residential care with skilled nursing and memory care services.  A CLC is designed to resemble a home setting as much as possible.  Like the Community Nursing Care program, eligibility is based on service-connected disability, level of disability, and income.
  6. State Veterans Home: A State Veterans Home provides 24/7 skilled nursing care, domiciliary care, adult daycare, and memory care in a VA run facility.  Eligibility for a State Veterans Home is determined by the state in which the veteran resides.

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Memory Care for Dementia Through the VA

The cost of care for individuals with dementia can oftentimes cause a big financial strain on family members.  For veteran’s, the process of applying for and getting approved for benefits can be lengthy and confusing.  At Paths Elder Law, our staff is highly skilled and experienced in VA and Medicaid benefits.  We can help you apply for benefits and work through the eligibility process to help you get the care you or your loved one needs for the different stages of dementia.

If you have any questions about VA programs for memory care and creating a long-term care plan, get in touch with Paths Elder Law today by visiting our website or giving us a call at 816-524-7999 to schedule a consultation.  Our caring staff is here to help.

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Jennifer Scott

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Jennifer serves as an Estate Planning Paralegal, providing comprehensive support to the firm’s attorneys and clients. She assists in the preparation of wills, trusts, powers of attorney, and other estate planning documents, ensuring accuracy, clarity, and alignment with each client’s objectives.

Before transitioning into estate planning, Jennifer gained extensive experience as a Family Law Paralegal, this background enables her to navigate sensitive client circumstances with professionalism, discretion, and a strong understanding of family dynamics.

Jennifer is recognized for her attention to detail, strong organizational skills, and commitment to delivering a thoughtful and reassuring client experience. She approaches each matter with integrity and a focus on ensuring clients feel informed and supported throughout the process.

Outside of the office, Jennifer enjoys practicing yoga, watching sunsets, and spending time in nature—activities that provide balance and inspiration in her personal life.

Assistant to Russell Fracassa

Peyton Osborne

Peyton Osborne

Peyton serves as the Assistant to Russell Fracassa, bringing dedication, reliability, and compassion to her role at Paths Law Firm.

With prior experience supporting small businesses in administrative and operational capacities, she has developed strong organizational skills and a sharp attention to detail that help ensure both attorneys and clients are well supported.

She is currently studying at the University of Missouri–Kansas City as an Honors Student, demonstrating a strong commitment to excellence in both her academic and professional pursuits. Peyton’s work ethic and drive are reflected in the care she brings to each task and interaction.

Outside of the office, Peyton enjoys spending time with her family, reading, and exploring new places.

Probate Paralegal

Shaye Kotze

Shaye Kotze

Shaye entered the field of civil law in 2022 and has quickly developed a strong foundation in client service and legal support.

Her academic background includes an Associate of Science degree in Healthcare Services and Informatics Administration and a Bachelor of Science in Interdisciplinary Studies, with an emphasis in Health and Human Services, Social Sciences, and Humanities.

This unique blend of legal experience and healthcare-focused education allows Shaye to approach her work with both analytical precision and genuine empathy — especially when supporting families navigating complex and sensitive situations.

Outside of the office, Shaye enjoys spending time with her husband and their one-year-old daughter. Whether she’s baking sourdough, working on arts and crafts, or enjoying time outdoors, she values creating meaningful moments with her family.

Receptionist

Malia Blosser

Malia Blosser

Malia serves as the first point of contact for many of our clients, helping create a welcoming and supportive experience from the very first phone call. As our receptionist, she assists with scheduling, communication, and ensuring that each interaction reflects the care and professionalism our firm values.

She understands that many families who contact our office may be navigating stressful or uncertain situations, and she strives to make every conversation feel comfortable and reassuring.

Outside of work, Malia enjoys spending time with her husband and their two children. She loves reading, watching movies, and baking with her kids — creating meaningful memories both at home and at work.

Of Counsel

Janeece L. Dent-Bennett

Janeece L. Dent-Bennett

Janeece Dent-Bennett was born in Lexington, Missouri, in 1960 and graduated from Lexington High School in 1979.  She graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration with a major in Accounting from University of Central Missouri in Warrensburg, MO in 1982. 

In 1985, Janeece graduated with distinction from the University of Missouri-Kansas City School of Law.

Upon graduation from law school, Janeece joined the former Shughart Thomson & Kilroy, P.C. law firm (now Polsinelli) in Kansas City, Missouri, with a primary practice in corporate and business law. 

She started her own law practice in 1989 and has since practiced law in Lee’s Summit, Missouri, serving clients throughout the state of Missouri with a primary emphasis in Wills, Trusts, Estate Planning, Probate, and Business Transactions.

Janeece is married and has 3 children.  Jillian Dent is an attorney in Kansas City, Missouri.  Nathan Dent is a Certified Public Accountant in Denver, Colorado.  Andrew Bennett is an Electrical Engineer in North Kansas City, Missouri.  Her husband Mark Bennett is an IT specialist contractor for the USDA.

Recently, Janeece closed her former solo law practice of 36 years and joined Paths Law Firm in Lee’s Summit, MO as Of Counsel.

Legal Assistant

Reese M. Lehr

Reese Lehr

With a strong background in customer service and a passion for helping others, Reese brings dedication and a positive attitude to her role as a Legal Assistant at Paths Law Firm. She supports the team by managing client correspondence, organizing policies, and stepping in wherever needed to ensure clients receive the highest level of care. Known for her strong work ethic and adaptability, Reese is always ready to tackle new challenges and contribute to the firm’s mission.

Reese is currently enrolled in the Honors Program at the University of Missouri–Kansas City, where she continues to pursue academic excellence. Outside of work and school, she enjoys spending time outdoors and cherishing meaningful moments with her family and friends. Her enthusiasm, reliability, and drive make her a valuable part of the Paths Law Firm team.

Office Assistant

Christine G. Yates

Christine G. Yates
Christine serves as the Office Assistant at Paths Law Firm, where she supports day-to-day operations with a strong work ethic and a positive attitude. A student at Faith Christian Academy, Christine is passionate about pursuing a future career in both business and law, with a goal of serving her community and making a meaningful impact.
 
Outside of the office, Christine is a multi-talented individual who enjoys spending time with family and friends, playing musical instruments, practicing martial arts, cooking, exploring the outdoors, and constantly learning new skills. Her energy, curiosity, and dedication make her a valued member of the Paths team.

Legal Assistant

Bailey E. Harrison

Bailey
Bailey is a skilled Legal Assistant with a focus on elder law, providing dedicated support to both clients and attorneys. With a strong background in customer service and a certification from the University of Arkansas’ paralegal program, Bailey brings exceptional organizational skills, attention to detail, and a client-centered approach to their work.
 
Committed to efficiency and professionalism, Bailey assists in navigating complex legal matters with compassion and precision. Outside of work, Bailey maintains a balanced lifestyle by reading, staying active, and spending quality time with their cats.

Community Relations

Jeane M. Fracassa

Jeane M. Fracassa

Jeane Fracassa – a dedicated and accomplished professional who retired with an impressive 38-year service record from the Kansas City Missouri Police Department. Throughout her illustrious career, Jeane served as a Civian Supervisor in the Communications Unit, where she played a pivotal role in ensuring efficient and effective communication within the department.

Even in retirement, Jeane’s commitment to community service remains unwavering. Currently, she serves in various capacities within Community Relations at Paths Law Firm. Actively engaged in the Lee’s Summit and Overland Park communities, she proudly represents the law firm.

In all aspects of her life, Jeane Fracassa exemplifies the values of community, compassion, and family. Her commitment to making a difference and her love for exploration make her a remarkable individual, whose presence brightens the lives of those she encounters. Whether at work, with family, or during her travels, Jeane’s genuine care for others and her zest for life make her a truly remarkable and inspiring person.

Attorney

Kathleen E. Overton

Kathleen E. Overton, Attorney

Kathleen Overton is an attorney and owner at Paths Law Firm. She has more than 17 years of experience advocating for those with special needs and navigating the state and federal agencies formed to help the disabled and elderly. At Paths Law Firm, Kathleen’s practice focuses on helping the elderly qualify for nursing home Medicaid, creating estate plans to protect beneficiaries, as well as a lot of time planning and forming businesses. Kathleen also enjoys helping clients form non-profit organizations and obtain 501(c)(3) tax exempt status.

 

After attending law school at the University of Oklahoma, Kathleen began representing clients before the Social Security Administration. Eventually her practice switched to federal court appeals and Kathleen spent years representing clients before the Eastern and Western District of Missouri, the District of Kansas, and the Eighth Circuit Court of Appeals. Kathleen has since focused her practice on estate planning and elder law after watching clients struggle to find ways to financially care for loved ones with special needs or aging parents.

 

Kathleen lives in the Northland with her husband and four children. She spends her free time attending soccer matches and ballet performances with her children and starting endless home improvement projects with her husband. 

DIRECTOR OF OPERATIONS

Sydney R. Morris

Sydney R. Morris

Sydney serves as the Director of Operations at Paths Law Firm, overseeing the firm’s internal processes, team coordination, and strategic initiatives. Since joining the firm in 2017, she has grown from an experienced paralegal and internal accountant into the central force behind the firm’s operational excellence. 

She graduated with honors from the University of Missouri–Kansas City in 2022 with a Bachelor of Science in Accounting. Sydney is also a proud alumni member of Bloch Launchpad, Phi Theta Kappa, and the National Honor Society.

Outside of the office, Sydney enjoys spending time with her husband, reading, baking, and going on long walks.

FINANCIAL MANAGER

René A. Fracassa

René A. Fracassa

René is the Financial Manager at Paths Law Firm overseeing all aspects of revenue, expenses, and financial planning. She is also responsible for general office management, including assisting in many of the administrative matters that periodically arise. 

René earned her Bachelor of Science in Hotel and Restaurant Management from Central Missouri State University in Warrensburg, Missouri and soon thereafter worked her way through management at The American Restaurant where she worked almost 17 years before relocating to the country of China.

In her spare time, René is currently quite active managing multiple generations of her family, including parents and grandkids.  René has had great impact on the lives of many women teaching discipling and teaching and abundance of Bible Studies. Her former career in management and event planning trained her well to juggle all the activity.

MARKETING MANAGER

Hilary R. Tichota

Hilary Tichota

Hilary plays a vital role in managing the Marketing Department at Paths Law Firm.  She is excellent at bringing new ideas and sharing valuable resources with the law firm and our community. Hilary has been with the law firm since the beginning, working in nearly every role which is invaluable in her marketing endeavors as she brings a unique set of skills into the Marketing Department.

Hilary is nearly complete in her Bachelor’s of Arts Degree in Marketing at Park University.  She has earned the honor of being listed in National Honors Society, Phi Theta Kappa, and the Dean’s List. Hilary is always looking for new and innovative ways to share the law firm’s message.

ATTORNEY

Russell A. Fracassa (Rusty)

Attorney Russell A. Fracassa

When asked what he wants to do, his reply was “I just want to sit at the kitchen table and work directly with people.” Rusty enjoys working with clients providing experienced advocacy and supporting them through their unfamiliar and overwhelming situations. Due to all the challenges faced by seniors, it is essential to work with an experienced elder law attorney who has expertise in the law, issues, and concerns affecting seniors and their families.

Rusty brings more than 30 years legal experience and expertise working for seniors and their families as an elder law attorney in Kansas City and surrounding. Prior to law school, Rusty was an accountant and his first couple years practicing law was as a tax attorney. This provides invaluable experience in his current practice of law. Rusty’s focus is helping protect seniors’ assets from taxes and long-term care costs, benefit qualification, and navigating more complex family scenarios in their estate planning.

Rusty has personally experienced the loss every parent fears, caring for a spouse suffering with cancer and the treatment, and working with aging parents through all stages of their lives.  He intimately understands the challenges faced by individuals and their caretakers when capacity or health declines, how to prepare for it, and the legal matters while in the midst of it.  He may not be able to eliminate his client’s grief, but he strives to provide clients with peace of mind.

In 2010, Rusty’s faith and love led him and part of his family to China as Christian missionaries. He and his wife, went permanently, but ended up dedicating 3 years to that ministry. They returned to Missouri to help with grandchildren after a family tragedy and later began anew with Paths Elder Law. The goal is providing compassionate care through legal advocacy.

Rusty has multiple degrees and advanced study spanning his Bachelor’s of Arts in Business Administration – Accounting at Rockhurst College (now Rockhurst University), Masters of Arts in Accounting and in Intercultural Studies, as well as his Juris Doctorate from the University of Missouri at Kansas City School of Law.

When Rusty is not practicing law, he enjoys spending time with his family, grandchildren, and excessive eating at local restaurants.

Practice Areas

  • Wills and Trusts
  • Estate Planning
  • Asset Protection
  • Medicaid Benefits
  • VA Benefits
  • Probate
  • Guardianship and Conservatorships
  • Education

 

BSBA and Master’s in Accounting, Master’s in Inter-Cultural Studies, and Doctorate in Juris Prudence

  • Rockhurst University
  • Liberty University
  • University of Missouri – Kansas City


Admissions to Practice

  • Missouri


Professional Memberships and Affiliations

  • State Bar of Missouri
  • National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys (long-time Member)
  • Elder Counsel (Charter and Ongoing Member)
  • Missouri Association of Trial Attorneys (Past Member)
  • Kansas City Metropolitan Bar Association
  • Missouri State Bar Committees – Elder Law, Estate Planning, Probate