Guardianship, whether delegating the task to someone or taking it on yourself, is a significant responsibility. While it may be flattering to be considered for this role, it can be overwhelming for many.
Assuming the role of a guardian comes with its fair share of responsibilities. These responsibilities make it okay for you to say “no” if you do not feel like you can fulfill them.
The Responsibilities of a Guardian
As someone’s guardian, you are not only responsible for their basic needs but also for their emotional well-being. It’s essential to understand that your life changes when you become someone’s guardian. You must think about the person you are protecting before making any major decisions in life.
A few primary responsibilities as a guardian are outlined below:
- Acquire required medical care or services
- Make regular in-person visits to the individual
- Support the individual’s best interests
- Assess health care, treatment, and supportive services records
- Maybe complete an annual report to the court or county Adult Protective Services Office
- Participate in staff meetings
- Understand the drawbacks and benefits of any suggested interventions
- Confer with healthcare providers and social services as needed
- Operate in a way that is least restrictive compared to housing placement
- Recognize and honor their choices whenever it’s feasible
It is also your responsibility to keep the other person’s best interests at heart and try your best to achieve them.
It’s Okay to Say No
Before signing up for a guardianship role, it’s essential to review your current financial and emotional standing. Even if you can use the other person’s assets for most of what you do, there are some financial ramifications affecting you. Are you ready to support the other person financially? You may not be prepared to provide emotional support or be involved in the execution of their wills and trusts. It implies a great deal of respect for you to be considered for the role but if you do not feel able to fulfill the requirements, it is better to decline.
